SPEAKER Darin Stone (Harbor Presbyterian Church)
Walking in the Spirit Ephesians 5:1-21
FACT: You imitate the closest object of your heart.
QUESTION: Who do you imitate?
1. The Struggle with sex and sexuality
- it is something that is talked about so much in the world, but silenced and tabooed in the church community
- Paul talks about sex being guarded and protected as a treasure, because that is ultimately where our heart lies and has priority towards. (Matthew 6:21)
- Sex was something beautiful created by God for us to know Him more fully, that we may understand his sexual language about marriage, love and passion.
- When we misuse our sexuality, we not only create a barrier between us and God, we also fall far from him into adultery, prostitution, homosexuality.
- We start thinking about self-gratification, lust, and how things that we do can benefit us personally.
- This struggle is one of spiritual growth and maturity.
2. Paul’s answer: “Be imitators of God.”
- we imitate those that things that are close to our heart. Whatever drives is is what we want to imitate and seek after.
- if God is the desire of your heart, then all the spheres of your life can be used to serve him abundantly and without hesitation. (Luke 7:36-50)
3 Ways to imitate God
A) By living wisely (Eph. 5:15-16): Live with carefulness because evil is so subtle like a cloud patch in a highway. We are so easily distracted from God by very trivial things, and we need to be mindful of how our time is used. “You gotta check yourself before you wreck yourself” – Ice Cube
B) By living in community (Eph. 5:19): Christian life is not meant to be lived in isolation. Christ has not only saved each of us individually, but He saved us into his body and church. We need that safety and community that Christ’s body can provide.
C) By being filled with the Holy Spirit (Eph.5:18-20): Let the Holy Spirit fill you so that you are under the influence of Christ. Someone gets drunk to feel better because they feel that their lives are out of control, but they become wreckless and careless in their thoughts and actions. They become slaves to their self.
- Let the Holy Spirit weave into your life to produce the fruit of the Spirit
- Colossians 3: Let the word of Christ dwell in our hearts and mind, shown through our lives.
- Have a life of thanksfulness – Understand that God has already given us most of our needs and more. Stop grumbling and complaining like those liberated from Egypt when they were not satisfied with the luxuries of life.
- We all have a Lord that has come to us in love and mercy to redeem our souls. Lets learn to become mutually harmonious with one another, become very much integrated in each other’s lives
- Christian life is one that strives to live obediently but the Gospel is about God pursuing us despite our disobedience or works or lifestyle.
- Understand that our faith in Christ is what saves us. Let Christ be shown beautiful in all aspects of your life.